What do I look for when seeking a minister?

There must be a relationship between the minister and those wishing to have the ceremony performed. You have to relate to one another and feel that the minister is someone that shares your views, or will, at least, set aside his/her views while serving you. Overall you must feel comfortable in his/her presence. Is he or she giving you his or her undivided attention? Can you easily communicate your ideas with each other? Will he/she listen to your ideas and desires for your ceremony, or does he/she have his/her own agenda? What is his/her experience and training? Remember that the minister’s time is valuable, for he/she may have other obligations — like running a ministry, a church, or another occupation altogether.